Dating isn’t as simple as many people assume it is. A first date can be nerve wracking, and it can be hard to read signs and signals in someone you aren’t familiar with. It may take a few dates for you to start to understand this. If you are wondering if the female date you’ve been on was good or not, here are a few ways to tell.
Her Body Language
You can tell while still on the date how it’s going just by watching her body language. If she leans in to you, makes contact with you by brushing up against your hand or arm, or tilts her head and laughs, these are all good signs. This means she feels a connection with you and may be trying to flirt. If you see her looking at the table, looking around the room, or she is sitting back against her chair completely, these are signs you may need to change the pace or the scenery to hold her attention. If you see this, try to get her to open up about herself. Ask open ended questions, and allow her to take lead.
The End of the Date
The end of the date can be the most telling of all. You don’t want to be a creep and push her to go back to your place or push for a kiss. However, a woman who has felt they had a great date will be more receptive to the end of the date kiss. As you say goodbye, stand close and touch her hair or her shoulder. If she doesn’t shy away from this, you can move in for a little more intimacy. Allow her to control it though. If she doesn’t move towards you, then the kiss won’t happen. This doesn’t mean the date didn’t go well, but it does mean you need to step it up on the next date if you’re given a chance.