Trying to figure out whether a woman you’ve met online is interested in dating you can be tough. There are ways you can figure this out without coming across as too aggressive. Here are some great tips to help you determine if they are worth pursuing or they are just wasting your time.
Look At the Messages
If you are messaging someone you met online, take a close look at the messages. Are you just flirting, or is there talk of an actual meeting. If you’ve been messaging for a few months and don’t feel anywhere closer to meeting then she is either not interested in you or she is just playing games. If you are afraid of this, it’s acceptable to come right out and ask if you are ever planning on meeting. Be aware that it may take several weeks to a few months to start to feel comfortable enough to agree to a face to face meeting.
Shared Interests
If the only thing you have is common is that you are both on an online dating site, then you probably won’t get very far in an actual relationship. However, if you share a lot of interests and look forward to chatting online with each other, then it’s a pretty good bet that she is interested in you. Watch for signs that signal she is looking forward to future conversations. If she starts to ask about your online schedule and wants to set up times to chat several times a week, then she is probably interested and you could forge forward with meeting in real life.